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loss my brother
« on: October 01, 2008, 09:42:23 AM »
I lost my brother 4 mos. ago and its been very hard to deal with grieve. My bother was murdered and there's been no arrest. I live in the Los Angeles, California area where people are killed everyday by gangs. My brother was a victim of a driveby shooting. I have read books/articles on grieving but nothing really helps. I want to be able to chat with other people who are in the same situation. Are they willing to talk?? Please respond I need help!!!


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Re: loss my brother
« Reply #1 on: October 01, 2008, 09:52:14 AM »
Hello, so sorry for your loss of your brother. I lost my sister 2 weeks ago from an accidental drug over-dose. She was 52.  I also lost my oldest brother to aids related lymphoma in 1989, and as horrible as that was, this loss was much worse because it was so unexpected and your brother.  I am praying that this heartache and hole in my soul will ease some with time as I don't know how I will live the rest of my life like this.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.


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Re: loss my brother
« Reply #2 on: October 16, 2008, 02:55:05 PM »
im very sorry to hear about your brother.  i lost my brother to fentalnol poisoning. not an easy thing to deal with, and the city docs it as a drug overdose. life does not get any easier at least it feels that way. he was 29 and im the same age. i can try and help as much as i can. i can understand the feeling of loss and it is the worst. why does it have to happer to the best ones.  im not saying he was a saint. but at least everyone smiled when he was w him. you will find the strength to heal its going to take some time but what else do we have. i try and focus on the positive side of everything. pray to him every night before i go to bed i know he is listening, and if hes not so what it makes me feel beeter to think he is.


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Re: loss my brother
« Reply #3 on: October 18, 2008, 07:54:28 PM »
I lost my brother 2 months ago.
His wife shot him in the top of the head while he was asleep.
All I hear is poor thing.  What was she going through to do this?
My brother was a sweet and loving father to his 4 little girls (10 yr old twins, 4yrs, 2 yrs).
He was 35 and my baby brother.  I miss him so bad.  His wife is walking free on bond and brother is gone forever.