My sister died of an overdose of a common muscle relaxent on September 13, 2008. I had gone to visit our brother, a 4 hour plane trip away, and we got the call the second morning of my visit. We lost our older brother in 1989, our dad in 2006, and our mother in 2007, this unexpected loss of our sister has hit us like a ton of bricks. I have never gone thru anything, good or bad, without my sister. I don't even know how to start now. I have a huge hole in my heart, a rip in my soul.